Wednesday

Hey Rudolph......

My dear friend Judy loves to entertain and had a few of us gals over for dinner last night.  She "decks" her halls so beautifully and it was totally wonderful!
There was Tammy......Oh how I love Tammy.  She is so inspiring and so in tune with the "spirit" and has so much to offer each of us.  What a blessing she is in my life.  I have leaned on Tammy more than once and she totally understands me and never judges and I have also been there for her through her trials.  It's so nice having a friend like Tammy. We cry together and also laugh our bums off.
and Teresa.....not a coincident that Teresa and I got to know each other.  Not a coincident that Teresa met Judy from KSL when she bought a bed from her and that they reunited at a funeral we were all at. Not a coincident that she met Tammy tonight either.  I love how we are guided and directed in our lives....it was obvious tonight.
Judy is one of my "angel friends".  She has always loved me and treated me so kindly.  Judy is so positive and kind and would do anything for anyone.  She is absolutely amazing and a blessing from Heaven.
 And there was me.....I am here to help others feel loved and to enjoy life! I hope I do that!
I feel honored to have been invited to enjoy these ladies tonight.  We started at 6:30 pm and I left close to 1:00 am.  At one point I got a text saying I had a visitor at my house for me and was I going to be home soon?  I thought I might.  That was around 10:00 but Judy wasn't in a hurry for us to leave and told me to ask them to call or come back.  I think they are coming by later.  I didn't want to miss the conversation we were having.....it was so inspiring and very spiritual, awesome and enlightening.
It was such a great night and was meant to be.  All of us needed each other tonight and we are suppose to all be friends and help each other.  It's funny to me how we are all needed in different ways and guided to those we need.  What a blessing friends are!
The meal was wonderful but these get togethers are really never about the food.  Food is the excuse to get together.  It's what happens before and after the meal that is the real reason for being together.


I absolutely love my friends.  The ones I spent so much time with last night and all of my friends everywhere.  I don't always blog or mention the ones that I don't get pictures with or go to lunch with but they are just as important to me.  I cherish each and every friend of mine.  Some I have known and loved for years and others I have just met.....regardless of when any of them have come into my life I am glad they are there.  I just need friends!  I never really knew how blessed I have been but others point it out to me and I realize they are right.....I have a lot of friends.  I thank Heavenly Father all the time for blessing me abundance!
I am a happy girl and so very, very blessed!

Monday

Ropelato Christmas Party

I was in charge of the Family Christmas Party this year and must say that it was fun once again.  Larry and I decided to have it at the Church this year and I am glad we did.  I didn't stress about my house being cleaned and didn't have to stress later about cleaning it again.  The church was a great idea.  we pulled a few curtains to make the room where we met smaller and cozier....it worked great!
I was stressing thinking about organizing everything and was reminded by a cute niece that I have plenty of help.  My mind hadn't switched gears yet or had switched back & was somewhere else or something but once she reminded me of that and I made some assignments everything fell into place and went well.  I didn't stress much at all today.  Julie and Kevin organized the story of the Nativity and the others helped and it turned out cute.  As I watched this year my mind reflected back to when my kids & nephews & nieces were the kids in the play and now it is their kids.  Couldn't help but smile!  So glad for memories and family traditions.
I tried taking pictures of everyone so that those that couldn't make it and live out of town could see.  I know Shari enjoys seeing what's going on.  I got counting later of all those missing and we had 27 that weren't here.  I thought the majority was here but that's still a lot missing.  I guess at this point....with the families so big we are not going to always have everyone.  So, we will enjoy those that we do have....and we did!

I have always loved the Ropelato family and have felt totally loved and accepted by everyone.  It's a great family to belong to.  Everyone cares about each other and would do anything to help another out.  I just really like them all.  I love seeing it grow and the next generation is just as great.

I love getting together and having my kids interact and know their cousins, aunts, and uncles too.  Family has always been so much to me and I wanted it to be the same way for my kids.  Larry's mom and dad should be proud of what they started.  (I know they are)
It's funny that years ago I gave dad a recipe for Lasagna and he is now the Lasagna Specialist.  He has improved the recipe a few times and so he gets to make it every year for everyone.  He said he doesn't mind and I am glad because when he stops doing it I think it will fall back on me.....and I know it won't be as good.  He's got it down perfection......yummy perfection!

I love watching my nieces and nephews as parents.  It's so fun seeing a part of them in each of their kids....again my memory goes back in time and enjoys itself.

It's so fun just visiting and being together since that doesn't happen often with the growing families.  Time flies....you know that right?  I remember not long ago I was the new bride and mom. Grandma & Grandpa Lowe (Larry's mom's parents) were the ones responsible and enjoying their posterity.  I am glad that they got this started......






So really at our party we eat.  We eat Lasagna....because we're Italian.  We visit and enjoy one another.  The kids run and play and make memories.  Then we have the kids act out the nativity.  It's important to our family for the children to know why we have Christmas.  So.....we do this every year.

I think the "littles" enjoy dressing up and being a part of the play.  Sometimes we have lots of angels.  Our wise men are girls as well as our shepherds and it never matters.  It use to be that the boys out numbered the girls but that is not the case with the younger ones.....we have lots more girls.....who make nice looking shepherds, inn keepers, and wise men.



Then when we can....which is most of the time we invite Santa to visit us.  I like having Santa be a part of our parties too because he is a great symbol of Christmas....and fun!  Most of the kids  thought he was great this year.  I think there was only one that cried and she was little.  My grands liked him.


Santa brings the kids socks......the kids seem to like it.  Parker even went back and showed Santa the socks he just brought him....he was hoping for a bow but maybe on Christmas day he will get that.
Kimi and Jared aren't as crazy about Santa but do like getting a gift so they play along.  
I love Santa.....I have always loved Santa.  My first memory of Santa is when I was just little.....probably around 3 and someone knocked on our door and when I went to open it Santa Claus came in.  I asked Santa for a baby doll....and I didn't care what kind as long as I got a baby.  That year I got a cute Pebbles doll from the Flintstones Cartoon.  I loved that cute baby doll.  Tonya and I were talking at Thanksgiving and she remembers that doll too.  I kept my dolls and played with them for years.  Santa just makes me smile!
Kevin was my helper in finding Santa this year.....I think he did good.  Santa had a good time and I believe we will see this "helper" again in the years to come.
After Santa made his appearance we visited more and anyone that wanted to played the M&M game.  It was only the kids playing the M M game.  To play the game you roll a die and when it rolls on the number that you selected you get to suck up M&M's through a straw and drop them in your bowl until someone else rolls that number. (we pick 2 numbers)  The kids had a good time and everyone had plenty of M&M's to eat.  I think Haylie won or came in 2nd to Jared and so I gave her a big "sucker" for sucking the most M&M's.
 After a few blinks we'll be doing this again.

Tuesday

Cheers to Friendship

Carla hosted a Christmas Luncheon for the sista's and it was so much fun.  Her house was decked out for Christmas and very beautiful.  I love these women.  Today I can't remember for sure the things that came out of my mouth but I was referred to as blond a few times.  Pretty sure that wasn't a compliment (wink) but funny nonetheless.
I'm amazed at these women and all that they do.  Lisa is like Martha Stewart.....always doing something cute and creative.  She even got credit for bringing the pot luck dish that I brought.  (palm trees out of fruit which I copied from Loretta)  She did however bring some cute little crystal mugs with white chocolate melted around the rim topped with smashed up candy canes and filled with hot chocolate.  Those are the mugs we "toasted" with. Such a cute idea ..... Lisa is just that kind of gal.  She even makes her own lovely caramel apples that look and taste wonderful.  Three lucky ladies got those today....I wasn't one of them.
 Instead of White Elephants we each brought three gifts. The gifts were things that we really like.  It helps the others learn a little more about us.  It was fun seeing what the others thought of and it took quite a bit of time because we all commented after each gift was opened.  Lisa had a caramel apple in each of her gifts that she gave along with other fun stuff.  All the gifts I gave included something with chocolate and the one's I received did too.  It was a blast.


I love these crazy ladies.  They enrich and brighten my life.  I am so thankful for them and so thankful for the internet and Face Book since that is how I became involved with them.  Each and everyone of these ladies inspire me to be better! (all my friends everywhere do and for that I am thankful)